Top Signs You're About to be Friend zoned

How to avoid the friend zone? I’m going to teach you how to pump the breaks before you become “a friend.” If it’s too late and you’re already in the friend zone you might want to check out “3 Tips to Get Out The friend zone.”

Anyway, the girl you like is cute, fun and you enjoy spending time with her. You’re not sure if she’s interested, but you have a good rapport when you see her. So, how do you avoid becoming her BFF? Now, can guys and girls be friends? YES. This topic isn’t about that. It’s about when you like a girl and you want to be more than friends.

You have to make your intentions clear from the get-go. You tell her, “hey I want to go on a date with you. I'm interested in you on a deeper level.” When she hits you with friendship goals. You let her know you can’t be friends because of your feelings for her. You say it all up front. Trust me, you don’t want to be three years down the line - seeing her getting married while she makes you her Man of Honor.

Here are the Top 2 signs you’re heading to the friend zone.

SHE ASKS YOU FOR FAVORS

She asks you to help her move, paint her house or any other service around the house. She hangs out with you with no makeup on in her rattiest pajamas with her hair fucked up. She doesn’t care if she sees you when she’s sick.

TALKS ABOUT OTHER GUYS

She talks to you about other guys and asked for dating advice. You’re not her therapist. You don’t want to hear about the guy she hooked up with that, aren’t you!

Those are the main signs you’re heading into the friend zone. If she does either of those cut the friendship off.

Remember Make your intentions clear. Even if you’re nervous about rejection, you’ll be okay. It’s better to know! That way, you can move on if you need to. You’re never going to enjoy a friendship if you’re harboring loving feelings. Do not torture yourself, be real with yourself and your feelings.

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